How to Wisely Dealing with Girlfriend Husband

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It all shows that although the relationship is not going that determines rights and obligations for couples who do it, but courtship is often a good cause legal problems for the couple as well as to third parties ....

Why is that?


Because of legal issues in dating can sometimes continue when one side has married degan others, and unfortunately again the ex-boyfriend can not move on ... Suppose there ex who is not willing to move on, the possibility of anything can happen, for example, the ex who wants to take back the gift he ever love, or he forbade her ex was marrying someone else ... Oops also in case of such emergency.

But beneath this there is one article about a former boyfriend who has not been able to move on and eventually interfere with other people's households gan .. In this article also explained how to deal with a third party that interferes with degan domestic harmony wise manner. Here discussed that legal action is a last resort if the way the way the family have been tried and did not succeed ... So, if a third person problem can still be solved peacefully, well do not need to go into the legal system that can take time and cost a bit.

Question:

I married a widower, before he established the love (boyfriend) with a woman for 4 years without me knowing. And I know it's happened before. As time goes on, I know my husband, for one year he opened his heart that essentially wants to marry me. I then want, and finally we got married, and it was without the knowledge of his girlfriend. Shock, my husband is still in touch with that girl for marriage we had. After a few months I was pregnant, and the girl knows the actual incident. After a long time he does not accept it, I was so angry with my husband. Finally, I said to my husband's mistress, had just left my husband. I knew he was guilty, and I said he must also be aware my husband was married and about to have a child. He already knows all this, so I implore him to understand and do not bother us anymore. Feeling betrayed, she did not follow what I said and he continued to disturb our domestic life until now. With this problem please give me the views and solutions. Thank you.


Answer:

Sister Dear questioner,

Test of love, for the designation of our problems being experienced sister in marriage to her husband. The existence of a third party who disrupt harmony in the menage certainly highly unpleasant, especially knowing that the third party is the 'girlfriend' of a husband.

 Our suggestion is to first communicate on such third party with the husband for not too much prejudiced. We believe that by promoting a sense of love and affection to their husbands sister, the communication will run without the words full charges, not indulgence in rage or cornering husband. Detecting husband feeling against 'chick' is an important and useful for the sister to take a stand.

 In the question above, Sister did not specify what kind of disturbances girls do it at home life with husband's sister. However, we agree when Sister convey the 'girl' in order not to interfere with home life with husband sister. Our assumption, Sister wishes to maintain household sister. Therefore, alternative measures can be more mileage sister is involving the families 'girl' or the Chairman of the RT where the 'girls' are domiciled to be a liaison to convey the status of a married sister, who will soon give birth to her first child and requested that they not interfere Sister households. If the disorder is carried out by 'chick' that there are elements of violence or threats, Sister can make a complaint report to the nearest police on suspicion of Article 335 of the draft Penal (Penal Code) associated unpleasant act.

 Despite all the effort that we gave at the top, there are things you have to remember that love is sister could not unrequited. Submission and submit the results of the efforts that have been done to maintain the sister house to the Lord will give you a good psychological effect for the sister and the baby is the biological sister. We do not have the power to control other people's feelings. Therefore, faced with the test of love is smiling and forgiving. May be useful.